On this track we will talk about replacing your adrenaline fuel, or your 'fight or flight' response with what we will call healthy, 'premium' fuel
to assist you through your holiday let-down and depression.
the most popular drug of choice seems to be adrenaline. Do you agree? Is this
true for you? Let me explain.
Adrenaline activates the 'flight
or fight' response to stressors that gives us the positive rush when we finish
a big project for work, or the negative rush when a traffic jam makes us late.
This rush can become addictive, and many of us develop bad habits, like constantly
juggling too many projects, that keep our adrenaline levels high.
not bad in itself, but overusing it keeps us constantly on alert, and high levels
over time can lead to anxiety, depression, insomnia, and a suppressed immune system.
Take a moment to examine your life. Do
you constantly over commit yourself personally and professionally? Do you put
things off until the last minute? Do you always feel short on time? If so, then
you may be fueling yourself on adrenaline.
Kicking the adrenaline
habit is difficult. Our culture promotes a frenzied lifestyle, so it takes
practice and patience to slow yourself down. We will now discuss four simple exercises
to help you shift to a more healthy pace.
3 Steps to Breaking the Adrenaline Habit
Step 1: Analyzing Resistance ot Arriving Early
One simple step is
deal with your resistance to arriving early for appointments. This is an obvious
one, but why don't you do it? When you schedule an appointment, give yourself
space before and after so that you feel less rushed. For example, if you make
an appointment from 10 to 11, block out time between 9:30 and 11:30.
If you make
this a regular practice, you will notice that giving yourself room to breathe
leaves you with more energy. But the problem with this is you lose the adrenaline
rush of being late. So truly what you are dealing with is your addiction to adrenaline,
and not really this piece of information to arrive at appointments early.
Step 2: Eliminating Distractions
kick your adrenaline habit, analyze your distractions, interruptions, and annoyances. Think over the last twenty-four hours. Are you constantly interrupted by, kids,
co-workers, telephone calls, and/or significant others? That's a really good way
to feed your adrenaline rush is to keep your life in a constant stage of agitation.
So if you truly are addicted to adrenaline, you have very little motivation to
set limits. However, if you are motivated to have some peace and tranquility in
your day, you might discuss in your group that is listening to this track, or
write in your journal who or what interrupts you, and how you can set limits.
Step 3: Restructure Your Time
your energy. Instead of working on several projects at once, restructure your
time. Block out a period for each project, and concentrate on one task at a time.
You will find that this not only reduces adrenaline, but improves the quality
of your work, and gets each task done more quickly. Once again, your ability to
set limits is tested here.
Now that we have discussed ways
to reduce adrenaline by analyzing your resistance to arriving early, eliminating
distractions, and restructuring your time, we will talk about ways to replace
adrenaline with a more 'premium' fuel for your mind, body, and spirit.
4 Ways to Add Premium Fuel to the Body
#1 - Eating Right
first step is to give your body healthy fuel. Eating carrots instead of
candy bars is a no-brainer, right? But to make the emotional connection between
the food and the comforting it provides is the key.
#2 - Exercising
add fun exercise to your daily routine. Exercise also is a no-brainer, so why
don't more of us do it? It's because if you are like I am, you view exercise as
hard work, plus you feel you don't have the time. How about if you just took a
mental health break by walking out on your porch and breathing the air for a few
minutes and looking at the trees.
Believe it or not, deep breathing is a form
of exercise, and creates a physical break for your body. So if you are a firm
non-exerciser, take a break, roll your shoulders back, and just breathe. No one
needs to know that you're doing this, not even your co-worker at the next desk.
#3 - Taking Agressive Steps to a Good Night's Sleep
take aggressive steps to get a good night's sleep. Do you wake up feeling rested
and refreshed? If not, let's find out how we can improve your sleeping area. What
do I mean by aggressive?
Four Agressive Steps to a Good Night's Sleep
--a. First, let's talk about the air quality in your bedroom. How is the air quality in your room? If you find yourself waking
up with red, puffy eyes, or sinus headaches, try buying an inexpensive an air
purifier in your room.
--b. Second, let's talk about noise pollution.
Eliminate noise distractions by listening to a pleasant audiotape, like whale
song or rainforest sounds, or consider using a 'white noise' machine.
--c. Third, let's talk about the atmosphere or environment in your bedroom. Decorate your
bedroom in way that makes you feel calm. Don't work in bed or watch TV.
--d. Fourth, let's talk about what you do right before you go to sleep. Watching the news about
the latest break-ins may not be the most relaxing thing for you. If you have trouble
falling asleep, do something to relax before you go to bed. What would help you
wind down from your day? Taking a hot bath? Reading a good book? Spending time
with your family?
So regarding your night's sleep, think about your air
quality, noise pollution, atmosphere, and what you do right before you go to bed.
#4 - Deep Breathing
take a deep breath! We talked about breathing being a form of exercise. When
you take a deep breath, it sends a signal to your entire body to relax. The way
we breathe can help us add premium fuel to our bodies. Try it now.
Take a deep
breath into your belly so that your stomach pushes out. Count to four as you breathe
in through your nose, hold it for a count of eight, then let your breath out slowly
through your nose as you count to two. Notice how you feel. Try this deep breathing
during pauses in your day- waiting at a red light, in between tasks at work, right
before you go to bed.
3 Techniques to Fuel the Mind
Technique #1 - Making a Wish List
Now, that we've talked about ways to
fuel your body via eating, exercise, sleep, and deep breathing, let's discuss
ways to fuel your mind. First, make a wish list. Write three items on a 3"x5"
index card. Be specific. Do you want to add a thousand dollars to your savings
account? Would you like to find a higher paying job? Keep this card with you throughout
the day, and visualize having these things. Be mindful of them, but don't be too
Technique #2 - Making a "Treasure Map
Next, create a "treasure map" to your
wish list. The treasure map that leads to your wish list is actually a collage
of images that reflect your goals. These goals can be material, like a picture
of a new car, or you can include images of a place you'd like to visit. Include
goals for your whole life: relationships, career, fun, health. Make the collage
attractive to you. Take a moment to think what images you might add to your treasure
map. Is there a saying or image that particularly inspires you?
Technique #3 - Thinking "High Quality Thoughts"
yourself to think 'high quality thoughts'. Pay attention to how you talk to
yourself during the day. Do you find yourself thinking "I'm not good enough"
or "I can't do anything right"? Create a self-loving affirmation or
mantra, for example "I deeply and profoundly accept myself". If you
catch yourself using this negative self-talk, replace the thought immediately
with your mantra.
To guide you in creating this mantra, think of what you might
say to a loved one who was being to hard on himself or herself. In addition to
your mantra, choose inspirational reading to raise your spirits. Decorate your
workspace with simple visual messages like "love" or "joy".
Reduce the number of negative images you put into your mind by making conscious
decisions about what you watch and read. Is there a TV program or magazine that
makes you feel unhappy?
3 Ways to Add Premium Fuel to the Spirit
We have discussed fueling your mind
by making a wish list, making a "treasure map" to your wish list, and
thinking high quality thoughts. Now let's talk about five ways to fuel your spirit.
#1 - Music
First, add your favorite music to your day. Is there an artist you really loved
when you were younger? Listening to your favorite music can inspire you, bring
back fond memories, and put you in a happy mood.
#2 - Laughter
the time to laugh. Laughter is a powerful healing tool. What makes you
laugh? A group of friends? A funny movie? Fuel yourself with laughter at least
once a week. Do you have a problem laughing? If so, what parental messages did
you receive. Were you told by your parent "you'll be crying by the end of
the day; wipe that smile off your face"? If you are listening to this track
in a group setting, you might discuss what messages you received as a child regarding
#3 - Cry
Third, allow yourself to cry. This may sound uncomfortable,
but good cry can cleanse the mind and reenergize you. If you are feeling overwhelmed,
give yourself a private space to cry. Some people find it impossible to cry; if
crying is not a possibility for you, look for another safe way to release negative
emotions and fuel your spirit. As mentioned earlier, try hitting a pillow. On
the other hand, if you find yourself crying often, look into the cause of the
wound, and ask yourself what you need to do to heal that wound. You are the most
knowledgeable person about yourself.
Listening to music, taking
the time to laugh and cry are good ways to give your spirit 'premium fuel'.
On this track, we have discussed breaking the adrenaline habit by trying to
discover the payoff for you in being late, analyze your distractions, and reorganizing
your time. We have discussed ways to add premium fuel to the body, by eating right,
exercising, taking aggressive steps to a good night's sleep, and deep breathing.
We covered fueling the mind by making a wish list, making a treasure map, and
thinking high quality thought. Finally, we discussed using music, laughter, and crying to add premium fuel
to the spirit.
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