Questions:
1.
What
are the shaming rules?
2.
What
men can use to get over shame generated in the present?
3.
What sources of shame?
4.
What are methods that facilitate
healing internalized shame?
5.
What
are ways shame is manifested?
6.
What are guidelines of forgiveness?
7.
What
are the archetypes of the realms of men?
8.
What are the physical references of
shame and guilt? |
Answers:
A. "redefining relationships" and the "reparenting"
B. 1) educating himself, 2) finding his anger, 3) finding his sorrow, 4) designing
his own process of forgiveness, 5) moving on
C."Shame Release"
D. 1) king, 2) warrior, 3) magician, 4) lover
E. 1) intentional shame, 2) shame through silent response, 3) inherited shame,
4) shaming through events, 5) bodily shame, 6) internalized shame, 7) shame of
the false self
F. 1) control, 2) blame, 3) perfectionism, 4)
incompleteness,
5) denial, 6) no talk, 7) disqualification, 8) unreliability, 9) not allowing
the five freedoms, 10) moral intimidation
G. emotionally, cognitively,
and physically
H. Often referred to as a void and as a burden. |